Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Girl Child Is A Gift of God

India is one of the few countries where selective sex gender bias exists till today. The onslaught of feminism has not allowed Indian women to revolt against the century old systems. For centuries together women have played their roles of being the provider and sustainers of families without even a thank you note at the end of their lives. It has been proven in India and other countries where ever women have been given freedom they have changed the world and made a better place to live in. Consider these facts:

Education and training helps the woman to hone her talents. She can earn more money. Women have the ability to put the money earned in further education. They also spend the money of better healthcare for children and families. Men on the other hand are spendthrifts. When they earn they spend it on vices and make hell for their families. The economic status of the woman gives her a better social understanding. An educated woman is likely to defend herself better than an illiterate one against men, crimes and abuse. Once she knows her rights she can also approach the courts. Many daring women have taken such recourse to bring men to task.

It is only a woman who understands that weather a male or female child, it should be healthy and given equal status. A woman has the power to end the evil of dowry system also. As girls are given a chance to live there will be control in population. Families will be small, healthy better educated and happy. Today’s woman has to be given the confidence to live. She will eventually be a balanced mother. The craving for the ubiquitous male heir has to vanish. Discrimination between the male and female child have to end for ever. Educated Indians have to behave responsibly and set an example for one another.

The Ministry for Welfare of Woman and Child in India says, ‘don’t kill your girl child. We will look after her.’ It is an embarrassment for all of us if we fail to protect the rights of the girl child. India has examples of women who have risen from the ashes like phoenix and done the country proud. India can be poised and shining only if the girls are given an opportunity to prove their talents. In education they have been toppers consistently against boys. A girl is like a flower to be nurtured.

She is a goddess to be revered. She is mother earth that sustains the very breath of humanity. How can man even think of killing her in the womb? It is said in the Bhagwat Gita that the karma of the past catches up. For those who have killed their daughters mercilessly they will go through the same fate. But the woman whose tender heart continues to nurture will still give a chance to evil to redeem. Unless India gives women a chance to survive, it would fail as the world’s largest democracy.


Source: http://www.indianchild.com/girlchild/a-girl-child-is-gods-gift.htm

Who is the most adorable Hindu God for youth? Mighty Lord Hanuman, the deity of strength, tops all the lists with a tremendous lead over all other deities.

For an instance, in sponsored links on the internet, Hanuman takes over all other Gods with approximately 27 lakh links, whereas Lord Krishna comes second with 9 lakh links and Lord Ganesh stays on third position with approximately 8 lakh sponsored links.

Inspiring Devotion across the World:

Not only inspiring devotion within the people of India, but Hanumans stories and legends are spreading throughout the world. Even the new President of America, Barack Obama says that Lord Hanuman is his favorite God and he inspired from Hanumans stories and legends.

Hanuman Chalisa – The Second most recited Mantra:

Lord Hanuman is known for his strength and for his kind look over devotees. Hanuman, also called as Lord Anjaneya, protects his devotees by destroying ghosts, demons and by making them free from all troubles. The Hanuman Chalisa is the primary verse for his devotees to please the lord. Probably, Hanuman Chalisa is the second most recited verse in every Hindu home. Obviously, the most recited verse is the Gayathri Mantra.

Bajrang Bali Ki Jai – A new Slogan for Next Generation:

Instead of He-Man and Super-Man, todays children are admiring Hanuman for his great values and attitude. Parents have started to tell the stories of Hanuman to their kids by applying daily lifes moral. As most of the personality development formulas have told by the Bhagwadgita, Lord Hanuman also helps the next generation with his attitude full of dedication, determination, positive thinking, motivation and helping nature. It is a fact that nowadays children are replacing their hi-fi toys with masks of Hanuman and mace of Hanuman.

Source: http://hindupad.com/hinduism-amazing-facts/lord-hanuman-emerging-as-favorite-deity-for-generation-today/

BJP's Agitation getting together the students - மாணவர்களை திரட்டி பா.ஜ., போராட்டம்

சென்னை :

"இந்து மதத்தை சேர்ந்த ஏழை மாணவர் -களுக்கும், கல்வி உதவித்தொகை வழங்க கோரி, ஆக., 16ம் தேதி முதல் தமிழகம் முழுவதும் மாணவர்கள் சார்பில் போராட்டம் நடக்கும்,'' என பா.ஜ., மாநில தலைவர் பொன்.ராதா -கிருஷ்ணன் தெரிவித்தார்.

சென்னை பா.ஜ., தலைமை அலுவலகத்தில் அவர் அளித்த பேட்டி:

சிறுபான்மை மாணவர்களுக்கு கல்வி உதவித்தொகை வழங்குவது போல், இந்து மதத்தை சேர்ந்த ஏழை மாணவர்களுக்கும் உதவித்தொகை வழங்கக்கோரி, தமிழகம் முழுவதும் தொடர் போராட்டத்தை கடந்த மாதம் நடத்தினோம். இதே கோரிக்கையை வலியுறுத்தி, வரும் 16ம் தேதி முதல் பள்ளி, கல்லூரி மாணவர்களை ஒன்று திரட்டி தமிழகம் முழுவதும் போராட் -டம் நடத்தப்படும். சிறுபான்மை மாணவர்களுக்கு கல்வி உதவித்தொகை வழங்குவதை, நாங்கள் எதிர்க்கவில்லை. கல்வி உதவித்தொகை பாகுபாட் -டைத் தான் எதிர்க்கிறோம். தி.மு.க., கேட்டு கொண்டதன் பேரில், இலங்கை -த் தமிழர்களுக்கான மறுவாழ்வுப் பணிகளை ஆய்வு செய்ய சிறப்பு அதிகாரி -யை, மத்திய அரசு இலங்கைக்கு அனுப்புகிறது என்று முதல்வர் கருணாநிதி கூறுவது பொய்யான தகவல். இலங்கை அதிபர் கேட்டுக் கொண்டதன் பேரில் தான், மத்திய அரசு சிறப்பு அதிகாரியை அனுப்புகிறது. பலத்த எதிர்ப்பையும் மீறி, மின் கட்டணத்தை உயர்த்தி விட்டு, மற்ற மாநிலத்தை விட, தமிழகத்தில் மின் கட்டணம் குறைவு என்று திசை திருப்பும் போக்கை முதல்வர் கைவிட வேண்டும். இவ்வாறு பொன். ராதாகிருஷ்ணன் தெரிவித்தார்.

Source: http://www.dinamalar.com/News_Detail.asp?Id=53339

Child trafficking

வடமதுரை : வடமதுரை அருகே நடுரோட்டில் விட்டு செல்லப்பட்ட இரு பெண் குழந்தைகள் குறித்து, போலீசார் விசாரணை நடத்தி வருகின்றனர். திண்டுக்கல் மாவட்டம் வடமதுரை - திண்டுக்கல் ரோட்டில், ஆண்டிமாநகர் அருகே நள்ளிரவில் நின்ற கார் அருகே, இரண்டு பெண்கள், மூன்று ஆண்கள் இருந்தனர். அப்பகுதியைச் சேர்ந்த ஒருவர், கார் அருகில் சென்றபோது, அவர்கள் காரை எடுத்துக் கொண்டு சென்றனர். கார் நின்ற இடத்தில் சந்தியா(2) பிரியா(4) என வெவ்வேறு குடும்பத்தைச் சேர்ந்த இரண்டு பெண் குழந்தைகள் மட்டும் நின்று கொண்டிருந்தன. அந்த குழந்தைகள் வடமதுரை போலீஸ் ஸ்டேஷனில் ஒப்படைக்கப்பட்டன.

போலீசார் துறை சார்ந்த நடவடிக்கையாக, காந்திகிராமம் சவுபாக்யா காப்பகத்தில் குழந்தைகளை ஒப்படைத்துள்ளனர். குழந்தைகளை தேடி இதுவரை யாரும் வரவில்லை. வெளி மாவட்டங்களில் இருந்து குழந்தைகளை யாரேனும் கடத்தி வந்தபோது, எதிர்பாராமல் விடப்பட்டவர்களாக என்ற கோணத்தில் போலீசார் விசாரிக்கின்றனர்.

Source: http://www.dinamalar.com/News_Detail.asp?Id=53340

Safety of Children : Schools and their Responsibilties

August 1: While statistics indicate that the closed walls of a domestic environment are most conducive for child sexual abuse, institutional abuse is an entirely different arena as the two recent high-profile cases, one at a Kodaikanal school and another at an international school in Hyderabad, have revealed yet again.

In both cases, top school officials allegedly sexually abused the victims inside the campus. It’s not just on the campus, children are abused in playgrounds by teachers, coaches and sometimes even by those who make a living as clowns in parties, say activists.

“At least in schools and other institutions where children are engaged, we can enforce guidelines to prevent the possibility of child sexual abuse,” say activists. They explain that the first step towards providing a safe environment for students would be for schools to have a child protection policy (CPP). “While CPP is mandatory in CBSE schools, several private schools from other boards are not even aware of its importance,” they say.

When this newspaper contacted the managements of a few private schools in the city, the response was mixed. Most mid-level schools in middle-class neighbourhoods had not even heard of the policy. A few school managements claimed that they did conduct some awareness programmes regarding the issue and that they even had a policy. However, many had no clue on what the policy was.

“When parents complain of abuse in schools, the immediate reaction of private managements is to hush up the issue and, in some cases, fire the accused. No private school has initiated criminal proceedings against a teacher accused of molesting children,” says Vidya Reddy of NGO Tulir. “Government schools fare slightly better.”

According to child psychiatrist Dr Mohan Raj, some of the common symptoms that could possibly indicate if the abuse took place in school would be the child’s refusal to go to school, or a sudden loss of interest in studies accompanied by erratic behaviour.

“But, there is no hard and fast rule. The best thing to do is to talk to the child about school and make him/her feel comfortable about discussing all matters concerning school,” says Dr Raj.

Source: http://www.deccanchronicle.com/chennai/%E2%80%98child-protection-policy-must-schools%E2%80%99-846


Prevent children from being abused by perverts

August 1: When eight-year-old Shrutimaya told her parents that she would never go to her friend’s place again, they thought their child was being stubborn. However, when she stated her reason, their dismissive reponse gave way to shock, revulsion, horror and anger.

When Shrutimaya, who lives with her parents at a posh locality in the city, was at her classmate’s place recently for a school assignment, their cook undressed her, squeezed her breasts and touched her genitals on the pretext of taking her to the bathroom.

Almost every week in Chennai, at least a dozen parents like Shrutimaya’s confront the most horrific situation of their lives. They find that their little darling was abused, exploited, raped, sodomised (or whatever you want to call it) by a sexual predator. And most of the time, they do not know what to do about it.

The city police, on an average, receive two to three such complaints every week. “We advise the parents to seek psychological help from therapists or counsellors as there is not much we can do unless there is visible injury and the parents prefer a complaint,” says a city police inspector on condition of anonymity. “These complaints usually reach senior officers who forward them to us and ask us to help without any paperwork.”

For Vidya Reddy of Tulir, one of the few organisations across the country that works in the field of child sexual abuse, the most frustrating part is the helplessness. “Over the years, we have learnt to deal with it. In 90 per cent of the cases, the abuser is a close confidant of the victim’s family and is protected by the same relatives. The blame is instead thrust on the child for what happened,” she says. Tulir receives at least three new cases of child sexual abuse every week. “We have managed to take a few cases to court, but that’s as far as we have been,” says Ms Reddy.

Last week, the parents of 11-year-old Meena approached Tulir after they found that her maternal uncle had been molesting her for the past several months. “Despite having full knowledge of the horrendous acts performed on the child, the family preferred to hush up the issue as the girl’s elder sister was interested in the molester’s son, who was seen as a good match for their daughter,” volunteers at the NGO said.

So, what can be done about it? “The best thing to do is to trust your child when they complain about something. Besides, it is always a good idea for parents to be a little paranoid about strangers and alien homes for the good of their child,” says senior child psychiatrist, Dr Mohan Raj.

Shrutimaya, meanwhile, is back in school and learning to cope with life after abuse. Her parents are frustrated that the cook in her friend’s home was not even dismissed. At times, Shrutimaya asks her parents: “Will they at least charge the cook Rs 100 as fine for what he did to me?”
(Some names changed)

Source: http://www.deccanchronicle.com/chennai/have-antennae-shield-children-perverts-847

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Family of DMK Chief - Karuna’s Kutumbam

DMK leader M.K. Karunanidhi’s life is the story of a movement and a party that’s now a family affair

This is the story of a patriarch and his kin. Spanning a time frame of over eight decades, this is also a story of their politics and its connection to the future of a party and a movement, two factors that contributed immensely in shaping the destiny of Tamil Nadu.

His story takes you back to Thirukkuvalai, one among hundreds of obscure villages in the then Madras Presidency, to June 3, 1924. The Muthuvel-Anjugam family was a humble rural household. In fact, the birth of the boy who went on to become five-time Chief Minister and ten-time president of the Dravida Munnetra Kazhagam, Muthuvel Karunanidhi, was no longer the biggest event by the following morning: a thief who broke into their house stole his thunder.

Fourteen years later, Karunanidhi became the leader of a small group of youngsters, Tamil Students Federation, who grew up with the Self Respect Movement led by Dravidian icon Periyar (The Elder) E.V. Ramasamy. The movement that started in 1925 had given special significance to words to spread its social reform agenda. Even when he was young, Karunanidhi had a way with language that made him special among the backward class’s assertive new generation. By then, he had started an eight-page, handwritten magazine called Manavar Nesan to be circulated at a zero-profit basis among 50 people. This craft became especially useful for the group of elders during the Dravidian movement and also during the birth of its political form, the DMK, in 1949.

His elder sister Shanmugasundarathammal’s son Maran was one of the youngest members of the youth brigade led by Karunanidhi—the second one from the family to enter public life. Karunanidhi married Padmavathy, daughter of musician ‘Pataka’ Sundaram Pillai and sister of singer C.S. Jayaraman, at the age of 20, around the same time he wrote the script of his first movie, Rajakumari.

BY 1967, DMK had drummed up enough support from the masses to install its president C.N. Annadurai as Chief Minister, the first non-Congress Chief Minister. The South Chennai parliamentary seat that he vacated went to Murasoli Maran, the influential second-rung leader of the party and editor of Murasoli, the monthly-turned-weekly-turned-daily that Karunanidhi launched as an 18-year-old.

There are stories that trace dynastic tendencies to that period, alleging that Karunanidhi, the then PWD minister, recommended his nephew Maran’s name as the potential candidate as ‘he was qualified and could speak English’ in the national Capital. However, it is equally true that Maran’s credentials in the party and the movement were as good as anybody else’s.

If the first instance of family promotion was considered automatic, the second one was planned and executed, but ended in a disaster. By the ’60s, when he became one of the leading members of the DMK, much had changed in Karunanidhi’s personal life. Padmavathiammal had died young—of tuberculosis—in 1948, leaving a son, Muthu. Karunanidhi lost his vision in one eye due to a medical condition after which he was advised to wear dark glasses, which became his trademark.

Karunanidhi later married Dayaluammal and had four children—Azhagiri, Stalin, Tamilarasu and Selvi. Around the time he became Chief Minister, he accepted Rajathiammal as his companion. When he was asked to explain his relationship with Rajathiammal in the State Assembly, he said, “She is my daughter Kanimozhi’s mother.” There were not too many questions asked after that.

Karunanidhi became party president and Chief Minister after Anna’s death in 1969. According to old-timers, this promotion came with ample support from matinee idol MG Ramachandran, who became the treasurer. Two years later, even after facing serious charges of corruption, the DMK came back to power, riding on campaigns by Karunanidhi and MGR. The consecutive defeat also pushed Congress to the periphery of state politics.

But soon, there were frictions between the writer and the actor, which prompted Karunanidhi to introduce his first son, Muthu, into the tinsel world as a counter to MGR. When Muthu was launched in home production company Anjugam Pictures’ Pillayo Pillai in 1971, his resemblance to MGR was accentuated by the make-up, mannerisms and acting modelled on the superstar. Those who lived in Chennai then remember Muthu taking out processions across the city on a white horse with a group of ministers in tow.

But his moderate success was not enough to take on the idol status that MGR attained by the ’70s. If anything, his promotion only hastened MGR’s exit from the party to form the Anna DMK (the present-day AIADMK led by Jayalalithaa) that claimed it would restore a non-corrupt government and the party symbolised by Annadurai.

Muthu’s failure as a replacement idol soon pushed him to oblivion. In came M.K. Stalin, Karunanidhi’s third son, who was born on March 5, 1953. Four days later, Soviet leader Joseph Stalin died.

Stalin was active on the sidelines even before Muthu made his movie foray and had campaigned for Maran in the 1969 Lok Sabha elections. Though he was inducted as a member of the party general council, it was Emergency that put this wild child on the political course. By the time Stalin emerged from prison, a year after he was arrested under MISA on January 31, 1976, he attained anti-Emergency credentials that more than carried their weight in gold.

In 1980, the DMK formed its youth wing with Stalin in charge. The same year, elder brother Azhagiri was sent to Madurai to ‘manage the Madurai edition of Murasoli’, though it was later interpreted as a move to avert an imminent clash of interests between the brothers who did not share the best of relations.

If Muthu was moulded after his rival, Karunanidhi groomed Stalin after himself. Stalin became the general secretary of the youth wing. He also acted in a couple of movies, including Ore Ratham (same blood) and Makkal Anayittal (when people decide) in the ’80s, apart from a brief stint on the mini-screen.

Over the years, Stalin toured the state and grew in stature within the party and outside, attracting criticism of family politics. Critics raised several points: Karunanidhi was the seniormost leader of the party; his son was in charge of its youth wing; and nephew Murasoli Maran was the party’s pointsman in New Delhi and its boss’ conscience-keeper.

However, there is no denying that the party did not have a leader to replace Maran at the Centre, and Stalin had his initiation into full-time politics as a member of the Opposition party after MGR’s AIADMK relegated DMK to the fringes for 13 years—between 1976 and 1989.

In the hotly-contested personality politics in Tamil Nadu, Muthu made a brief, dramatic comeback, to join the ruling AIADMK in the ’80s. But he was reported to have a drinking problem and soon faded out of public life, leaving only memories of some songs that he had sung for his own movies. The next time he made news was when a Tamil weekly published a report about Muthu living a life of penury.

Over the years, while in the Opposition, Karunanidhi came to be more in control of the party. The leader’s writ ruled in a party that believed in consensus in decision-making. So when Stalin was elected Mayor of Madras Corporation in 1996, it was seen as an apprenticeship to succeed his father, the then Chief Minister.

The only person capable of upstaging the plan was Maran, who was by then an important leader in Delhi and a minister in the United Front Government. The space was divided well, not leaving any ground for grudges.

Just When the path was cleared for Stalin, Azhagiri returned as a challenger. The elder brother, often portrayed as the hot-headed Sonny Corleone of this Godfather story, never had any post or responsibility in the party or Government. But this didn’t mean he had no control over the party apparatus in the southern region.

In the first three years of this decade, supporters of the brothers clashed on the streets of Chennai and Madurai, and inside the meeting halls of local bodies, seriously undermining the functioning of the cadre-based outfit. This was the first struggle for succession.

After Karunanidhi, Stalin and Maran were arrested under corruption charges in 2001, the then Chief Minister Jayalalithaa put Azhagiri, too, behind bars as an accused in the murder of senior DMK leader and Stalin supporter, T Kiruttinan, two years later. The family then joined hands against the common enemy and this working relationship was crucial in ensuring the DMK-led alliance’s victory in the 2004 elections.

According to a keen observer of the family, the present-day problems began with the death of Murasoli Maran in November 2003. With this, two new power centres evolved in the family: Rajathiammal and her daughter Kanimozhi, and Kalanidhi and Dayanidhi Maran. If there was a singularity in purpose during Murosoli Maran’s time, the new groups reportedly pulled in different directions that eventually led to the bigger crisis.

Dayanidhi Maran’s rise, fall and partial resurrection are part of folklore. If the infamous survey by AC Nielson for the Marans’ daily Dinakaran gave Azhagiri only a meagre two per cent public acceptance as Karunanidhi’s heir, the feud that followed its publication only helped rehabilitate him in the family in a battle of Us vs Them.

Maran’s fall from grace was closely followed by Kanimozhi’s transformation as a politician after years of remaining non-political. Kanimozhi grew up as a public figure without entering politics. She worked as a sub-editor in The Hindu and was also in-charge of a Tamil weekly from the ‘Sun’ stable.

After waiting in the periphery since the UPA victory in 2004, she finally entered active politics when she was made a Rajya Sabha member in 2007, two months after Maran was shown the door. There were strong rumours at that time, most vocally aired by Opposition leader Jayalalithaa, that she would be made the IT and Communications Minister, though that did not materialise. But her residence in CIT Colony in Chennai, which she shares with her mother, became an important address.

For a while, she was seen as Karunanidhi’s answer to the woman-power that Jaya boasted of, and DMK’s plan to organise its first-ever women’s conference at Cuddalore last year was to be her launchpad. But during the meeting, she had to share the limelight with a surprise newcomer: Kayalvizhi, the politically ambitious daughter of Azhagiri.

Karunanidhi’s daughter Selvi, married to the Maran household, was instrumental in their resurrection, as was Stalin. But not many outside the inner circle know the real deal behind the patch-up between the Marans and the Karunanidhi family. Apart from the talk of money changing hands, one of the rumours that gained currency spoke about a regrouping of the core family to keep out Rajathiammal and Kanimozhi from power. Interestingly, Kanimozhi was missing at the time of the reunion, like she was absent when Azhagiri and Maran took oath as Cabinet members on Thursday.

Karunanidhi’s life is a story of a movement, the party and the politics of a state—but finally reduced to a family. Whoever wins this internal struggle will lead the party in the coming days. It will also complete the metamorphosis of the DMK from an ideological entity to one based on dynasty and thus patronage.

In a warm sidelight to the main story, Muthu came back again, this time standing on his own feet as a singer. He has shaken off his past and sung a film soundtrack. His son Arivunidhi, a doctor by profession, has also sung for a film, the audio of which was released by Karunanidhi. Arivunidhi has also floated a trust in the name of Padmavathy -ammal, which, some say, is part of a grand design for the politics of the future.

Source: http://www.indianexpress.com/news/karunas-kutumbam/468573/0